Expect Failure!

Learning is the process of gaining experience to tackle a situation that one is entitled to face in life. I am stressing the need to pay attention to negativity. This is because the negative actions teaches the most important lessons in life and one can never forget them. But it doesn’t mean we need to be negative. Being negative is worse but being aware of negatives is good. Plus and minus makes zero in maths but a hero in life.

As a child, we tend to learn from our mistakes. We learn to walk when we fail to balance ourselves. No one told us falling down when you try to walk as a mistake. Falling down while trying to walk didn’t stop us from not trying. Why?

“None told us it a mistake, none scolded us for it, none made us feel inferior, or maybe just because we didn’t understand enough of what people said when we fell down.”

As we grow up, we start to understand things, we start to hear people constantly telling about success and hailing successful persons. Somehow our mind is tuned to one word Success and it’s not getting prepared for anything else that comes its way other than success.

Remember, the value of light is not known unless you experience darkness.

Failures happen in life. It’s a very normal everyday happening. You keep alarm at 6 and end up waking at 6.30, it’s a failure. The problem is the way we were taught to see it as a negative thing. When someone fails, make him believe in himself that he can win again. Normally our surroundings make a person think if you have done the other way, you would have succeeded. Crap. May be he would have failed the other way.  

Negativity isn’t bad. It’s just another face of life.

The main glitch is that one will have an optimistic approach towards life. One will be comfortable seeing the positive aspects of life. At times, one may get reluctant to face struggles which will make one repent their actions. When some adverse situations occur, one will not be able to persevere the pain and learn from it. One will get blurred by the praise of the positive actions and cannot be able to see how to solve the problem. This will hinder the problem solving ability which is nothing but one of the entities of the learning process.

One cannot be completely optimistic or pessimistic towards life. One must focus on the mistakes or negative actions of an individual more than praising them for the positive actions. Prepare your mind for anything that comes up. Accept failures. Let it not drown you. There is no success and failure based on the results of your action. Its based on the happiness you get.

Know the failure. Accept it. Deal with it.